(continuing from the post below)

The understanding of the mother's intention I think is needed for the daughter should be of quality sufficient to show the real character of the mother in relation to her daughter. I think that understanding is needed for the daughter to find her existence.
In other words, it seems that we have two main issues here. On one hand we have the issue related to the events themselves and dealing with that may involve deeper psychoanalysis related issues in the background. The other issue, on the other hand, seems to be at the forefront and is related to how these events, and what they imply, truly define the character of the mother in relation to her daughter. Understanding that relationship correctly is necessary for the daughter to be in true existence in that necessary relationship. 

While understanding the events and what they imply about the character of the mother in relation to her daughter may seem easy to an external person, it is probably far from being so to one who was abused as a child after the perpetrator found an opportunity to play psychotic games related to his true position in reality because of his actions like that of what raising a child empowers him to do.