(continuing from the post below)

Except for a little reading and watching the main videos in the two links below, I depended on my memory when I watched the two episodes. But reading and watching a little more in the second link, one may argue that the mother also made an implied admission or came close to that there. For example, how much things could come closer to admitting a knowledge then ( which is the main thing I care about not whether she remember now or not) than her saying that she cant take the polygraph test because she fears she could have "suppressed" something that would appear there? 
Anyway, regardless of how much that can be considered as an admission of knowledge then, things in that episode seems to make the mother's claim in denying the knowledge then, or even her claim of being unable to remember it now, sound like a joke.

The victim woman in the first link seems like the prognosis for not dealing correctly with the situation that the girl in the second link will find  herself in or even worse if she try to ignore the matter. In other words, she may spend decades trying to get away from dealing with that past but still return with failure later.

A much better path for dealing with the situation in both links below is for both victims to, first, be empowered with the capability of living away from those who are connected to what they had suffered. Second ,they should be helped to have an understanding for what happened to them  that include the correct understanding of the reality of those mothers in relation to them.

Until this happens, any "forgiveness" can hardly be seen to come from any other path except that of ignoring their own existence.  

Remember that after all that there is the role of deep analysis or  psychoanalysis to understand internal connections and emotions. However, my position is that even if you want to temporarily jump understanding your position in the internal world of the mind,you may still not have as much wiggle room for understanding your position in the external world because it is about your existence. Although that later requirement is often easily attainable, that is not always the case.Some people may do bad things to you and also enable you to easily see their true position toward you. Others may do you even worse but still wouldn't give you that knowledge through some kind of out of this world deception especially when there is an opportunity to do that like when raising a child.

Hearing the victim in the first link for example, I can hardly avoid how it conveys that what is adding to the pain of the past is that she is unable to reach a necessary conclusions about characters around her despite all that painful past because of the deception and needed help in thoroughly understanding her world rather than a reconciliation with it first.